自己開示は関係性の近い人の前でやるのは危険
自己開示は関係性の近い人を前にやるのは危険を伴う。できるだけ知らない人の前でやる。
これは、まさにメガネにも言えて、今までの印象とはまったく違う、見ず知らずの人から素晴らしいと言われるメガネは、今までと違うイメージで素晴らしければ素晴らしいほど、近い方、身内からは「なに!そのメガネ!!」と批判を受ける。
なので、今でとまったく違った新たな自分のイメージに、今までと違う、未来の成りたい自分になっていきたい時は、できるだけ、自分のことをまったく知らない人の前でやること!!間違いなく、それに限る!!
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Self-disclosure can be dangerous to do in front of people close to the relationship. Do it in front of strangers as much as possible.
This is exactly the case with spectacles, which are completely different from the impression you had before, and the more wonderful they are from a stranger, the more wonderful they are with a different image, the more the closer people and relatives will say, “What! Those Grotesque glasses!” and criticism.
So, if you want to create a new and completely different image of yourself, a different future you, do it in front of people who don’t know you at all, as much as possible! Definitely that’s the only way!
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