親ガチャ
最近よく言われる、親の収入や社会的地位、親の物事の考え方で子供の一生が決まってしまうという「親ガチャ」親が間違っていたら、子供も間違った道に行くという親ガチャ。
実際子供にとって、親の影響というのは絶大だ。できる限り良い影響を与えていたいと思うけれど、なかなか難しい。自分は、妻にも子供たちにも「ゼロ100」といわている。良くも悪くも、ゼロか100かどちらかしかないと。
親以外の大人と接触する機会があるならまだいいけれど、最近は親以外の大人と接触する機会がどんどん減っている。なので、なおさら自分のような親の影響が増していく。
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There is a widespread belief today that a child’s whole life is determined by the income, social status and attitudes of his or her parents, and that if the parents are wrong, the child will follow the wrong path.
In fact, the influence of parents on children is enormous. I want to be as positive as possible, but it is very difficult. I have been told by my wife and children that I am ‘zero or 100’. For better or worse, it’s either zero or 100.
It would be better if I had opportunities to interact with adults other than parents, but these days we have fewer and fewer opportunities to interact with adults other than parents. So the influence of parents like me is increasing.
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