父親として最も重要な仕事。

2023.9.15

近所のお祭りで3歳ぐらいの子供に、恐ろしいぐらい怒鳴りちらしているお母さんがいた。近くの人は皆、あんなに怒鳴り散らすことないのにという雰囲気。

公共の場で、あんなに怒鳴りちなされているということは、家ではさらにひどい？？　そんなことを思いながら、自分自身

「父の仕事の８割は母の気持ちを安定させること。母の気持ちが安定すると子の気持ちが安定する」と反省。

自分の家でのもっとも重要な仕事は、妻の気持ちを安定させること。自分にはできているか？おそらくできていないだろう。自分も気をつけよう。

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At a neighbourhood party there was a mother who was shouting at her child, who was about three years old, in a frightening way. Everyone around was in the mood that she didn’t have to shout like that.

If they shout like that in public, is it worse at home?　Thinking about this, I found myself thinking.

80% of father’s job is to stabilise mother’s feelings. When the mother’s feelings are stable, the child’s feelings are stable.

My most important job at home is to stabilise my wife’s feelings. Am I able to do that? Probably not. I should take care of myself.

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